Mr. Right? Yes, I still do exist. Contrary to what you’ve heard, I’m alive and living. I may not like Prince Charming or Prince Eric or someone like from your favorite chick flicks movies, but yes, I exist. Set aside your daydreams about love and your prince charming, and let me introduce myself.
I swear I am someone who wasn’t born to be neither your Mr. Right nor your forever. I am not supposed to bump into you and fall in love with you, but God has His amazing plan for us. He has been working with me for years, and I know He is doing the same thing with you. I am aware that we’ve both walked and sinned through this sinful and crazy life. That’s why let’s give each other a time to heal- a time to be whole again after we’ve been wrecked by our past lives. I’m giving you the space and time you deserve and stop myself from pursuing you not until God made it clear that you are healed and you are ready emotionally and spiritually.
Let’s wait for God’s perfect and right timing for love to connect us both. As much as I want to be with you, let’s have patience in waiting for that timing He promised us. A little suffering is incomparable to a lifetime with you. Let’s use this time being to strengthen our faith. Just patience, my love, patience.
Another thing is, God asked me to be so much like Christ that you can submit yourself to me and you too is asked to point me to Jesus through your actions. Can you do that now? Because I don’t think I can do that yet, however when God gives me the sign and peace about my continual growth of faith, I will obediently seek after you. Run to Christ, my love, and I will gladly follow you. You will know that it is me you’re waiting for because I will respectfully pursue you with true, pure, and clear intentions. You will know that it is me because I’ll be respectful of you and not flirt with you just because I’m bored. You will know it’s me because I will love your soul better than your body. You will know it’s me because I will respect your emotional and physical boundaries. You will know it’s me because I will be more interested in your faith and connection with Jesus more than the romantic and physical connections we have.
So, please wait for me, my love. Wait for both of us. Wait because God is telling you to wait. Wait because we have so much learning and growing to do– you and me. And wait because everything will be worth it. The reason why I’m not seeking after you is because I’m not ready and the reason why you are not being pursued because you’re not also ready. Let’s give each other a little more time, my love. Together, let’s submit individually to God. Let’s trust God in whatever plans He has for us. Not until we’re both ready, I’ll be waiting for the time I can already pursue you. I’m praying for you. I’m praying for both of us.
– Your Mr. Right